In 2023 I lost my life savings. Although at the time it was hard, ultimately was the best thing that ever happened to me. For those of you who know me, you will know about my centre, Anahata. It started as a beautiful dream. But since it was never MY dream, it was doomed to fail. We went about it the wrong way round. Inste[...]
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If I had known this one thing in 2020, it would have saved me a lot of frustration. When I had my spiritual awakening, I discovered my Femininity. It was intoxicating. I felt alive, empowered and liberated. I sat in circle and drank cacao and got in touch with my emotions and EXPRESSED my emotions for the first time in my lif[...]
I am part of a wonderful community in Barcelona. I live in a beautiful house in the mountains with friends and run a thriving Singing Circle. So why would I leave it all? The answer is LOVE. But, for logic's sake, let's start at the beginning. THE BEGINNING For those who have known me for...any amount of time...you will kn[...]
I was 33 when I had my midlife crisis. I feel grateful that it came before marriage and kids. But it was tough. Everything around me crumbled within a year. ❌My relationship ❌My health ❌My job ❌My finances I was hemorraging money from my failed centre, Anahata. I felt the energy being sucked out of my sola[...]
When I was a primary teacher, I desperately wanted to be a leader. I wanted to speak and have every child in the room listening to me, attent to my every word. I wanted them to remember me as the best teacher they'd ever had. And that kind of worked when I was teaching 7 year olds. I could get away with controlling them by be[...]
A question I hear a lot is: Why is being "aligned" so important, when being lost is an important part of the journey? This is a valid question. In this newsletter I will be answering this conundrum. I will also be addressing where I see so many people going wrong, keeping them in a perpetual in a state of LOSTness. And fin[...]
I am a survivor of narcissistic abuse. I believe my interest in personal development stems from the fact I have had so many toxic relationships. And I have played my part in them. We all have blind spots and we go on repeating the same patterns again and again until we learn the lesson. For those who know my story, you will h[...]
It was May 2018. I was sitting 21 floors above the beach in my swanky Barcelona office. Midway through interviewing a candidate for a role within our company, my imposter syndrome was rearing its ugly head. It didn't make sense. I had a great job. I lived in a great city. I had a great social life. So why was I feeli[...]
I have always been quirky. My friends got me. But many people didn't. I remember one friend saying people either loved me or hated me. I didn't like that. I wanted everyone to love me. We'll come back to that point later. Many people thought I was weird. But they said it with a smile as if there was something that amused them[...]
There is a dangerous spiritual belief that there are no victims in this world. That we choose our suffering before we incarnate in order to learn the lessons we need to learn. I am not disputing what our souls may or may not decide before we are born. What I AM warning of is the danger of using the shadow side of this belief to[...]
