Who am I?

I’m Abbey – mother, partner and singer-songwriter.

I’m also a Purpose Coach & Business Mentor for women who are done working a meaningless job and are looking to redefine the meaning of success on their own terms. I’ve helped hundreds of women transition from mind-numbing work to finding fulfilment by figuring out what they ACTUALLY want to do in this world.

Originally from Huddersfield, West-Yorkshire, my own journey to find fulfilment has taken me from the beaches of Barcelona, to the jungles of Colombia and ultimately to the mountains of Peru, where I am based now with my partner, baby girl, and Clive the cat.

I help women answer life’s big questions: who am I? why am I here? what do I want to create?

My journey into self discovery started in 2017 when I was sitting at my desk at a new corporate job and the following thought floated up into my consciousness: “IS THIS IT?!” I felt underwhelmed vy the life I had built for myself. Even when I switched jobs and had better pay and better conditions, this void inside me didn´t go away. I know something had to change.

At the same time my health was starting to deteriorate and soon after I was diagnosed with under-active thyroid and Hashimotos autoimmune disease. When my doctor told me there was nothing I could do to cure myself and that I would have to take medicine for the rest of my life, I knew it was time to take my healing into my own hands.

Around the same time I was creating my business – Anahata. With no experience of entrepreneurial life and facing the reality that this humungous project I had started and invested my life’s savings in ultimately wasn’t what I wanted to do, my anxiety went through the roof. I had no time to meet up with friends or to enjoy the little pleasures in life. I was lonely, depressed and burnt out.

The BIGGEST and most LIFE-CHANGING decision was deciding to stop doing what wasn’t bringing me fulfilment and joy and instead to focus on my heart’s calling, even though it meant losing my life’s savings.

Taking that decision set my life on a new track. Since then, I healed by thyroid, released my first album, met my soulmate and moved to Peru – and I’ve been able to support 100s of women figure out their talents and gifts and get paid for it.

My movement 🔥BURN THE LADDER🔥 doesn’t necessarily mean leaving your job – but rather burning down the old belief systems that are stopping you from taking action towards the life of your dreams.

You know you are ready to 🔥BURN THE LADDER🔥 if:

👉 You know deep down you’re meant for more than just showing up to a job you don’t love

👉 Your work pays the bills but drains you energetically

👉 You feel a pull to find work in something more holistic / “against the norm”

👉You have big dreams but you doubt you have what it takes to bring them into frutition

👉You want to build a lifestyle around your talents & gifts and get paid for it

👉 You have a lot of ideas but are unsure which one to choose

👉You worry you don’t have the discipline is takes to build something that’s truly yours

👉You want to ensure your financial security as you make the transition

👉You want to create from your heart and contribute to make this world a better place

👉You want to create a lifestyle where you have the time and freedom to live your best life