The pitter patter of tiny feet…

With the intensity of summer now behind us I thought I’d drop in and tell you my news!

I had beautiful, yet intense trip to Europe this summer.

And I came back to Peru 10 days ago with my cat, Clive.

He is settling in really well and did so well on the 30 hours journey!

But that’s not my main news….

I don’t know if you know yet…but I’m pregnant!

30 weeks and 6 days to be precise.

Which is why my trip to Europe was so intense.

–a trip to England to see my family

–a two week trip around the top European capital cities…in the baking sun

–3 retreats back to back

–3 days in the studio

— getting all the paperwork to take my cat to Peru

–a final farewell trip to Romania

It would have been a lot for anyone.

But for someone 6 MONTHS PREGNANT?!

I am feeling grateful, anxious, happy, worried and everything in between!

A question I am regularly asked is – where will I be having the baby?

In Peru, of course!

I feel super lucky because a year and a half ago I never imagined this would be my reality today.

If you haven´t checked out my article about my love story with Nilton and why I moved to Peru last year…you can do so HERE.

Nilton and I wanted to give it 6 months after I moved to Peru before we started trying for a baby.

And there were some logical reasons for this:

1) We wanted to make sure we were compatible. Agreed, 6 months may not be very long to figure this out. But after having survived narcissistic abuse, I considered my healthy relationship radar to be pretty sharp.

2) I wanted Nilton to meet my family before we started trying for a baby. I didn’t fancy the idea of saying to my parents…”hey, you know I moved to the other side of the world pretty impulsively last year? Well now I’m up the duff with an older Peruvian man you’ve never met…”

3) Nilton was very aware that he was getting older. At 53, it’s not that he can’t have kids, but understandably he wanted to do this sooner rather than later.

It’s so magical that we are having a baby together now. When we met I’d told him I wanted to call my daughter Luna. He was like “me too”.

The fact that we are doing this TOGETHER now is nothing short of a miracle!

Especially because I wasn’t even sure if I would be able to get pregnant! My results never came back positive when I did a self-ovulation test at home.

Nor had I ever had any accidental pregnancies …which at the back of my mind led me to think maybe I wasn’t able to.

Yet…my human design is a Manifestor.

And my nature IS to call into being that which I desire.

So I won’t pretend that I didn’t get my inner witch on and use those manifesting powers.

What did this look like?

Calling in my daugher’s soul around the firelight with the Pachulkans under the light of the July full moon

Using the power of orgasm to call her into being (too much information? Sorry Mummy…)

Using the spoken word to DECREE that we wanted to have a baby

And now here we are, 6 months pregnant in the Sacred Valley, nesting down until we get to meet our daughter in November.

Me being me though…I couldn’t go out without a bang.

Even though I am looking forward to my 6 months maternity leave so I can be present with my daughter in the most important months of her life…

….I still love fulfilling my purpose….

…which is to support others to find theirs.

That’s why this Tuesday 16th September I am launching my first ever GROUP PROGRAMME for women to get clarity on their purpose and take action towards their dreams.

It’s a 7 week online journey with a powerful group of women from around the world.

If you fancy joining us, we have a few spots left.

This will be the last bit of Purpose work I do for the foreseeable future.

I have a feeling this journey into motherhood is going to have an influence on my own purpose going forward…

And if not, let’s stay connected here and on Instagram.

Because I have been busy in the studio this summer recording some more songs which I can’t wait to share with you.

Thanks for reading me and sending you all the love from The Sacred Valley.

Love from Abbey (and Clive my cat)

xxxx

ps – If you would like to listen to my music on Spotify, check out my most popular song EMBRACE YOUR SHADOW here

pps – if you would like more info on my group programming starting this Tuesday 16th September, click here